Revelation night (A Story)

I would just like to preface: This is just a story.  

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 A few years back, I attended a party in a bar in BGC. I attended it, because its sort of a work engagement but also, I was newly single. What better way to meet new people, right?

Honestly, I didnt really plan to attend that party, thats why I didnt really prep for anything, didnt even put on make up. Just some blush so I wouldnt look sick.

So I get into the party, made a beeline to where my friends are sitting. Then this guy, sat beside me and offered me a drink. This guy (from here on out will be known as TG = This Guy) was fairly new but someone I quickly got chummy with. He was really friendly and he makes you feel so comfortable. But TG was a bit rowdy and touchy. He would constantly touch my back, put his arms around me and kept the drinks coming. It didnt really register as a red flag for me that night, as it was a party, in a club, with outpouring drinks. So, I just shrugged it off and I also wanted to have fun. 

He, for the most part of that night, really kept me company. But would also disappear in the crowd, I can tell he was really in his element that night. 

So as the night progresses, I got a bit tipsy, can still function but inhibitions, are a bit loose. TG progressed as the night progressed, his actions got a bit more deliberate and "pushy". My spidey-senses tingled a bit, but again, your girl is tipsy. I felt TG's hand gently massaging my back and tried to kiss me. I quickly turned my face so he just grazed my cheeks instead, he pulled me a bit closer and asked if im down...

"Down to what?" I asked.

"You know, down" he replied, as he moved his face closer to mine.

It took me a minute to compose myself and broke free from him. 

"Give me a minute," I said, making my way to the ladies room. 

I went inside a cubicle and sat for a bit, seriously considering it.

I was single, Its fine. I didnt seek it out, he came to me. Its just sex. 

Then I remembered, he has a girlfriend. 

I cant do this. Not to another woman. No. I know what it feels like to be cheated on and I refuse to be part if. 

So I stepped out, looked for my friends and said goodbye. 

Looking back, Im glad I made the right decision. I will never ever be part of any action, that would hurt another woman. 

I still see TG from time to time. I think he sobered up from that night. I also think he learned his lesson. He's not that chummy/friendly/flirtatious with me anymore. 

Im happy that I can sleep soundly at night. 

Goodnight friends.